Wherever man is found, he is a social creature. He relates to others.
Marriage does not diminish
this need to relate to those outside the family. The wife may wish to be a
part of a ladies' civic
club. The husband should seek to encourage her involvement. In so doing he
is helping meet her
social needs.
A husband may want his wife to initiate a neighborhood dinner or
participate with him in a
church Bible study. Such activities may not be at the top of her priority
list, but they quickly
ascend in importance because meeting his needs is important to her.
In helping each other develop social relationships, we are enhancing
their growth as a person. If
we put down their social interests as being superficial and unimportant,
we create tension
because we are seeking to thwart one of man's basic needs. The need to
relate. In a healthy
marriage, social relationships are seen as a normal part of life. When we
seek to meet each
others needs we are building a strong marriage.