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Speaking
The Truth in Love.
A husband said to me: "My wife is so
fragile emotionally, I don't want to hurt her, so I keep my feelings
inside, but sometimes I feel like I'm going to explode." Do you think
this husband is doing his wife a favor? I think he's destroying his marriage.
The Bible says that we are speak the truth in love. Both of these are
important: speak the truth and do it in a loving way.
Remember love edifies. Love builds up. Love
seeks to do what is best for the other person. Holding your
frustrations, hurts, and pain inside is not for the good of your mate or
your marriage. In fact, it is extremely unfair. Your spouse cannot respond
to your pain if they a aware of it.
You might say: "Darling I love you
very much and I realize that I have wronged you by not sharing this with
you sooner. I didn't want to hurt you, but that's no excuse. Please hear
me, I'm not trying to put you down. I'm trying to let you know how I
feel." Then tell the truth. Now your spouse has a chance to
help. You might be surprised at their response.
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