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Love
Is a Two Way Street.
Love is a
two way street. If a wife wants to enhance her husband's
ability to give her emotional love, perhaps her greatest influence will be
in loving him. In my book, The Five Love Languages, I talk about the
importance of discovering your husbands primary love language - the thing
that really makes him feel loved: words of affirmation, quality time,
gifts, physical touch, or acts of service. Once you discover it, pour it
on. Husbands are drawn to wives who are meeting their emotional need for
love.
Can you do it, even if he is not loving you. God
did. He loved us when we were unlovely. But that's God. I'm me. I know,
but you are God's child and He can empower you to love an unlovely spouse.
I've seen it many times. A wife chooses to speak her husbands love
language, even though she doesn't feel loved by him. He warms up and in
time begins expressing her love language. Can emotional love be re-born in
a marriage? You bet. But someone must begin the process. Why not you?
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