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Seeking The Well Being of
Your Spouse.
Her face was red. Her voice was desperate. "Dr.
Chapman, what is wrong with my husband? Every time I turn around, it's
sex, sex, sex. I think that's all he has on his mind. Isn't marriage more
than sex?" How many wives have shared these sentiments through the
years? The fact is that men and women are different. God made us that way.
The male sexual drive is rooted in his anatomy. The female sexual drive is
rooted in her emotions. Is God simply trying to make life difficult? I
don't think so. I think he made us different so that we would understand
that sex is to be an act of love.
God's approach is that we are to seek the well being
of the spouse. When the husband takes the initiative to meet the wife's
need for emotional love, she finds it easier to be sexually responsive.
When a wife takes initiative to meet her husbands sexual needs, she is
creating an atmosphere in which he is likely to respond to her requests.
Thus she can teach him how to meet her need. Remember maleness and
femaleness was God's idea, and God makes no mistakes.
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