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The Workaholic's Greatest
Fan.
The workaholic is usually well respected in the
community, and he often receives accolades from his employer. On the other
hand, his wife seldom views him as Mr. Wonderful. She is likely critical
of him because he invests so little in their relationship and is so
uninvolved in the lives of the children.
Her criticism is part of the problem. Oh, I
understand why she is critical. She is sick and tired of being a single
parent. His "wonderful job" is a source of great irritation to
her. But when she criticizes him, or his job, she is criticizing the one
thing in life that brings him recognition. Her criticism strikes at the
heart of his self esteem, and he fights back. That is why they often have
arguments.
Let me suggest a better approach. Stop being
critical of his work. Praise him when he receives awards at work. Become
his greatest fan. Give the accolades freely. Then request that he
do something with you and the children. When he does, and he will, then
give him praise. Don't say, "It was about time you gave us some
time." Praise him for little and you will get more.
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