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Unconditional Love
In Action
Yesterday
I challenged you ask your spouse to give you one suggestion each week on
what you could do to make life better for them. And that, to the best of
your ability, you do what they request no matter how they treat you. That
is unconditional love in action. (Obviously, I’m excluding immoral
requests which your spouse might make. Breaking God’s moral law is never
an act of love no matter who requests it.) I think you will find that most
of your spouse’s suggestions will be perfectly legitimate and very
doable by you.
After
you do this for three months. Ask your spouse how you are doing? If they
give you positive feedback. Say “Thanks, that makes me feel good.” If
they say, “I can’t see any improvement.” Tell them you appreciate
the feedback and that you are going to work harder over the next few
weeks. Don’t give up. Keep on loving unconditionally.
Eventually, they will respond positively and
start loving you, or they will run from you because they feel so guilty.
Either way, you will feel good about yourself. Unconditional love always
wins.
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