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Dr. Gary Chapman

Unconditional Love In Action 

Yesterday I challenged you ask your spouse to give you one suggestion each week on what you could do to make life better for them. And that, to the best of your ability, you do what they request no matter how they treat you. That is unconditional love in action. (Obviously, I’m excluding immoral requests which your spouse might make. Breaking God’s moral law is never an act of love no matter who requests it.) I think you will find that most of your spouse’s suggestions will be perfectly legitimate and very doable by you. 

After you do this for three months. Ask your spouse how you are doing? If they give you positive feedback. Say “Thanks, that makes me feel good.” If they say, “I can’t see any improvement.” Tell them you appreciate the feedback and that you are going to work harder over the next few weeks. Don’t give up. Keep on loving unconditionally. 

Eventually, they will respond positively and start loving you, or they will run from you because they feel so guilty. Either way, you will feel good about yourself. Unconditional love always wins.

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